The Mourning Gurl

 It's not like I designated a specific day of the week to be Wash Day, but I did have intentions on washing and styling my hair this week. Reflecting on this Ber season and all that has transpired in my life I decided to narrow it all down to a study of focus. No matter what the season is what you focus on will always be magnified. Now knowing what to focus on is different but aren't we all different. I can tell you all day about shampoos and conditioners but ultimately it's up to the consumer to consider there hair type how much they what to spend and the importance of it all. When you understand the fundamentals and the foundation you can decide on the level of importance it has in your life routine or on your to do list. Everyday Gentle Shampoo - uses a mild surfactant system designed for frequent or daily washing without stripping natural oils Moisturizing & Hydrating Shampoo - infuses dry brittle or coarse strands with humectants and oils to improve elasticity and ...

                 The Epidermis is the outer layer of the skin it's the bodies defense against free radicals germs radiation and water loss. Today I decided to indulge in some of my favorite products to hydrate smooth and stimulate this layer or whatever. Ok so wait yesterday I went on a target run which turned into a visit to Walmart, because let's be honest walmart tends to have more bang for your buck. While there i picked up some of Dr Teals lavender oil and that's exactly how I ended my evening. So this morning I woke up to the sweet morning du of lavender aroma, I then layered it with some body butter and dove deodorant and proceeded to the laboratory for Skincare. I have been using a Fenty skin care regime since Fenty started a skincare line oh and while at Walmart I got me a lil hydrating face mask to add to the mix.      The Skin and the Scalp should always be treated like a pre Madonna to your body it's the only treatm...

 When you make peace with things it's split tHere, at the Root. So I beg to differ. In "Two Strand Twist" we talked about how important water is to your mind body and soul and since mentioning coffee I Am exposing my twist. Ima take a seat and say "tHere has to be Balance. Their has to be a mysterious motive that we have in mind and maybe to late to take noticed tuh. Like all the ingredients my Coffee has and in Fasting experimenting the body to discover just that. Caffeine Fiend.  Not gonna hold you; all morning I was thinking about breaking my Fast like what if I wanna be the reason. Scrolling on tik tok of course all I see is mukbangs to add to whatever bitch she is. I'm learning not to be afraid of my shadow side, did I mention I'm a Virgo. My name name means Princess, and I wear my Hair like a Crown. I believe our hair carries energy so honestly and truly sometimes it's about maintainance and sometimes I find myself holding on to a vibe. Who was it t...

  Today is day two of my First week monthly Fast I knew it would get tough, but is that because I was thinking it? I made a plan wrote it down and made it plain. Yet and still something gets in the way, as im waiting for the bus I missed it by a slight walk "Gotta be quicker than that". Ok so now im feeling rebellious and think another questionable thought "why not get a snack" 😆 Or did I just find any reason to break my Fast being Thirsty. Just like Hydration fuels the Root it also fuels the scalp hence our Hair. 25% of our hair is made up of water, I learned that early on in my Loc journey when I noticed how much water my hair absorbs when I wash it. Drinking water encourages our tresses to remain most active in that Anagen phase we were talking about earlier in "4c Able Future". Sometimes things don't go as planned and that's ok, because we were able to see things from a different perspective which is important and vital to recovery. So ima jus...